Postby garyb » Thu Oct 24, 2019 3:15 pm
Plenty people travel alone, be it for days or weeks or years, even women (and especially women, judging by my social circle, my experiences in hostels, and the blogosphere!), and have a great time with no problems. For sure you have to keep your wits about you and be aware of dangers and scams etc. but I'd never tell people not to do it. Of course, most solo travellers will stay in hostels and/or attend events aimed at travellers and/or go on group tours, rather than just talking to random people on the street or in a bar.
Travelling alone can however be quite lonely, especially if you try to make it an "immersion experience" since as we've discussed meeting locals is not easy and even if you meet people or have friends in a place they have their own lives to get on with. Personally if I'm going to a place where I don't know anybody, I'll usually choose a hostel where mostly English is spoken and I might get a chance to use my other languages if it's an option rather than spending all my time alone and only having superficial interactions with shopkeepers and waiters. I'll enjoy myself more even if it means a little less language practice. What can also work is staying in an AirBnB room with a local host, so if you're lucky you'll get some language practice and company but also have your own space, but that also has its disadvantages and as a resident of a city that has suffered a lot of adverse effects from AirBnB I'm not keen to give them my money anymore. I'm relatively introverted so can manage a few days of solitude, but after that it gets too much.
Anyway my point is that getting a perfect immersion experience is difficult and perhaps not even desirable, so you'll usually have to compromise somewhere.
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