DaveAgain wrote:Ani wrote a few posts about getting language exchange partners that you might like to read:
Thank you DaveAgain, that was good advice! My experiences were quite good so far, but online language exchanges are definitely new to me. I've done a lot of offline tandems locally, and in my college town French was always the hardest languages to find a partner for because demand (everyone who did French within their degree and some independent learners like me = 100-200) always exceeded supply (about 10-20 Erasmus students per semester). I suppose I have to reappraise the whole "market" - always though it would be much harder to find a language partner, but over the last 2 weeks I have received many serious messages on italki, almost too many to answer and certainly too many to actually skype with. Keeping online dating in mind has definitely helped to sort through all the messages and I have chosen to ignore anyone who sends me a one liner or who doesn't even study German.
I've done 7 exchanges with 5 different people in the last 10 days and fixed new dates with 4 of them (some were only30 min), I think it is probably good to talk to many in the beginning and then wait and see how everything develops. The conversations in French went quite well. Lack of appropriate vocabulary was the most limiting factor at the moment, while grammar and phonetics did not generally impede the flow the conversation. Which brings me to my next point…
Because I was spending so much time on reading and listening, other skills were neglected. I watched Lýdia Machová's videos from the polyglott gathering some time ago, and thought that her approach makes a lot of sense. She proposes to focus on about 2-3 skills out of the full set of reading, writing, listening, speaking, vocabulary, phonetics and grammar for 3 months at a time, and then move on to other skills. I will focus on speaking and vocabulary from now on, and maybe add writing once I've established a routine