Sarafina wrote:There's a couple that I've really clicked and we've been language exchange partners for over a year but this year they have been so so busy for perfectly valid reasons. I just found a French exchange partner who I really clicked with and he was been pretty consistent but he is now on holiday for who knows how long. It seems nearly impossible to find French people who are free to talk 1-2 a week consistently. It's fine to know that I'm not alone.
Sounds like you're doing pretty well! In my experience, most people just don't have time for a language exchange once or more per week over the long term, and that's normal. It's a big commitment to fit in alongside work, studies, and the rest of life. I certainly struggle to do more than one lesson or exchange per week. Even if I have the time, I might not be sure when in the week I'll have that time, or it might not suit the other party.
One conversation every 2 or 3 weeks, with perhaps some text chats in between, is a realistic expectation for a successful exchange in my opinion. In the best ones I've had, we've usually had a rough plan like "Tuesday evenings, if both of us are free". Occasionally you do find someone who's willing to do them more frequently, but it's usually a temporary phase like preparation for an exam or just a short-lived burst of enthusiasm.