Postby Eternal Foreigner » Sun Mar 17, 2024 10:03 am
The language exchange was fun. As I mentioned, it was my first time speaking more than a few words in French, and wow I sounded awful. There were actually quite a few native speakers there helping everyone out, and they were really nice and told me that my French sounded good, but I know that it was pretty far from good lol. It wasn't just my awful pronunciation, I found myself searching for words a lot, words that I know that I'm familiar with, but couldn't produce actively without thinking a lot first.
I wasn't expecting to be speaking super well obviously, and it completely makes sense that my knowledge of French is mostly passive since I've only practiced reading and listening. I had an easy time understanding everyone when they spoke slowly, but later on I sat with a group of mostly native speakers and I could barely follow their conversation. They were nice though, and now I know some French people who live in my city.
One of the other French learners there (a Portuguese guy) had been part of the conversation, and later on we spoke in Portuguese. It took me a good minute to shift from French to Portuguese, that felt like a real mental exercise I wasn't expecting lol. But he ended up really genuinely surprised at how good my Portuguese sounds (probably in comparison to my awful French haha). I could also tell that my Portuguese sounded so much more natural and flowed far more easily. But it makes sense, since I have a lot of speaking practice with it. So that gives me some encouragement, I know I'm capable if I just do the same thing with French.
One final thing I'll note about the experience, it felt very comfortable when I was able to understand the conversation, even if it was difficult at times to contribute to it. When I joined the conversation with more native speakers, that comfort was kind of taken away as I started to lose the conversation. Because of this and despite my weak active skills, I still want to focus on improving my passive skills as much as I can so that next time I can follow everything that's going on without getting lost. That's my primary mission for probably the next two years, just comprehension.
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