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Tristano wrote:Cavesa wrote:2.Partial dominance is real. French is a particularly good example, as many natives refuse to talk to foreigners in French, automatically dismissing their attempts (including advanced learners). If you want a language that is awesome for travelling in Europe, choose a different one.
Sorry if I ignore the original post and only comment this sentence of you, @Cavesa, but I don't understand your statement.
In my experience, in France most of the people speak only French (same with the French speakers of Belgium). Speaking English with them would be rather pointless.
Second: there are enough French people that can actually speak English but refuse to do so and keep speaking French even to the foreigners that can't speak any French. They believe that the tourists should make an attempt to learn French if they go to France.
Then there are the people that only want to speak English with foreigners, dismissing their attempts.
But even though, they are much less than what you think.
I had all these experiences, having met a lot of French people and having travelled in France and Belgium a bunch of times. I had fluent speakers of English being very pleased that they could communicate in their native language with me, unfriendly people that forced me to communicate in French in a moment I was under pressure and used English just to share the same difficulties, other unfriendly people that answered me back that they don't speak Italian. Everything exists.
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I also had Italians speaking to me in A1 German and commenting between each others how good my Italian was.
As I already wrote many times: my experience is very different and some of the forum members shared similar experience. It is based on approximately 15 short stays and one stay of 6 months in France. The same experience was reported by a few forum members, but also people I meet in the real life.
While your experience was probably common some time ago, it is different now. Many French speakers automatically use English and some insist on it, despite me showing my abilities. And despite their English being significantly worse than my French (which is now almost always the case).
It used to be very common and frustrating when I was B2. I was very good for that level, due to my "use it all" attitude. But still, people kept using the damn English. Including a situation, where a group of natives accepted me as a normal person, used French, but one guy kept using English and at times annoyingly tried to translate for me.
At C2, it still happens with my family, no matter how absurd it is. Fortunately, it happens rather rarely, as I learnt to be much more assertive and don't care about their judgement. This attitude is just as important as the skills, perhaps even more. When I am somewhere with my family, which is obviously foreign, they still start from English and some try to stick to it, despite it being obvious my father doesn't understand that either.
When I am alone, it almost doesn't happen, but I still faced some weird situations during my Erasmus stay.
There are still individuals who insist on English after my answers in rench, and clearly (verbally and nonverbally) assume that it is cute I speak "un petit peu français" but still continue in English. Of course there is the opposite too, rather stereotypical people, but those are rather rare (for example a policeman writing the report on my stolen bag, that one was also such a stereotypical cop you could imagine him in all the jokes). And the situations in which this happens are a bit less accessible.
This is something extremely different from my other languages. In Spanish, German, or Italian, I could speak as soon as I wanted. Not even very weak skills (such as my Neanderthalisch) were an obstacle. I spoke the language of the country, my skills were sufficient for the given situation, so they continued in the same language.
This "the French speak only French and find English offensive" stereotype is not true anymore. People already understand that learning Swedish might be frustrating due to natives possibly not letting you use it, quite everyone has been warned, and we make an informed decision with this fact on mind. A Swedish learner knows they'll need to be extra good and assertive to win their practice. When it comes to French, first hand experience is being dismissed because it is different from the stereotype. So, learners start the language thinking how useful it will be for travelling, and later are disappointed, as their skills are not only unnecessary (the whole tourist industry in France uses English), but also not taken seriously. That is a very frustrating discovery after all the efforts and investments, especially for someone learning the language primarily for its usefulness during travels.
That's why I wholeheartedly recommend people to consider other choices too, before they start investing their time, efforts, and money. If you want a language that definitely adds value even to the simplest tourism experience, if you want a language natives will like to use with you instead of English, consider various choices. If you want to access media of any kind in the language, than go for it, French is great. If you just like the language and wish to learn it, enjoy. But if the feeling of accomplishment from using the language during traveling is important to you (and let's face it, it is one of the principal motivations among learners outside this forum), French is a tricky choice.