nooj wrote:After perusing through innumerable "expat" groups, innumerable tourist groups, after having talked to many immigrants like myself, and in general, realising that 90% of us tends to not learn or use the minoritised language, I wonder if we (with a special interest in learning languages) would be any better. I myself believe that we wouldn't be any better, and that no matter the level of language learning obsession that one might have, we would still be conditioned by the same conditions as everyone else.
If you went to Barcelona, Dublin or Strasbourg, would you learn first and foremost (or only) Spanish, English or French, or would you also learn Catalan, Irish and Alsatian?
I can speak only for myself.
In general, if I'd be in place for at least a month with sufficient free time to learn on my own regularly (up to 1 hour per day), I would indeed try to learn
something of the local minority language. Let's say something like A1 so that I can read signs and perform very rudimentary exchanges in the minority language if needed. Additional progress, would be governed by day-to-day needs plus personal interest. If I were in Barcelona, I'd still prioritize learning Spanish to a useful level because of the reality of how frequently the language is used there. Learning the rudiments of Catalan would take second place but I wouldn't turn my nose at it out of hand.
To turn the situation into something that I could readily identify with, if I were in Sápmi for a more than a month, I'd set out to learn at least one of the local Saamic languages
beyond A1 (obviously the more time available, the more likely I could pull it off), on top of either improving my Finnish through classes and self-study or learning Norwegian or Swedish from scratch in similar ways as Finnish. You can probably guess that I'd do this because I've been fascinated by Uralic languages for a long time. While your love of Romance languages is likely stronger than my love of Uralic languages, I do have enough in the tank so that if I were living in a region or town where something Uralic is used regularly and often in everyday life, then I'd sign up for classes or snap up as many resources as possible to have a chance at attaining something at least on the verge of basic fluency (~B1-B2). Even then I'd focus on learning it for more prosaic tasks like general communication and being able to take in an "duller" non-fiction media, as well as to widen my understanding of linguistic typology in general. Unlike you, I've never gotten that much into poetry, literature or songs in any language.